Why Women Do Not Get Orgasm Most of The Times

For some women getting that special orgasm during the sexual session is like winning on a Russian roulette that seems to be very difficult to achieve. But, do not lose heart as you are not alone and it is the case with most of the women.  You will see that you are able to reach that climax of sensations easily on some days while it never comes on most of the other days. The biggest problem with reaching orgasm for most of the women is that they do not get it when they want it most after a hot and exciting intercourse. This makes you wonder what is wrong with your body or mind or both that leaves you hot and dry even after a heavy and enjoyable sexual copulation.

Most of the times, the women miss the most important point that they need sufficient clitoral stimulation to reach climax and get orgasm. This must be taken care of before, during and after your intercourse to get orgasm during your sexual act.

Getting the Orgasm after an intercourse is the sweet victory for both you and your sexual partner and you have to be aware of the reasons why you are not able to get it every time you go to bed with the man you love.

Here are some of the ways to spruce up  your sex game that is sure to give you enough foresight and action plan to direct your lover to give  you the type of care and sensations that is going to  give you the Orgasm to fulfil the sex act with full sense of satisfaction.

Concentrate more on foreplay: foreplay is the most essential part of a successful sexual act and it must be done with care and attention to details with the sole aim of stimulating both your bodies for getting the best possible satisfaction out of the sexual intercourse. Most of the times the men think that they can give all the satisfaction to their sex mates just by stimulating the G- spot and vigorous penetration and humping during the intercourse. They forget that the clitoris is the main part that is necessary for giving the right type of sensation for the woman, as it is rich in nerve endings than that of the vagina. So, your man must be made aware of this and if he is not concentrating more on the clitoral stimulation, direct him to do so and you will be sure to enjoy the fruits for your efforts by getting the great orgasm. This is the best way to have a great, exciting and a stronger sexual relationship.

Be vocal and make him understand how you feel: Most of the women become totally silent and never express their real feelings when indulging in the sex act. On the other hand you have to be very expressive and make him understand how you enjoy and get more sensations when he does something that really gives you goose bumps. This will make him understand where he has to concentrate and what he has to do to get you near the finishing line and help you have that Orgasm that becomes the trophy for you in your sexual intercourse.

Do not get distracted: sexual intercourse is a matter that combines both the body and the mind together and for successful completion of the intercourse you must make them work as a single unit. For this, the mind and body must be conditioned in such a way they both focus on sexual act and satisfaction by enjoying the sensations that arise during the copulation. If the mind does not work with your body and wanders elsewhere your body loses the power to transform the feelings of sensation to build the orgasm. Due to this you will not be able to achieve orgasm however strong may be the stimulation and sensation your body gets out of the sex act. So, never allow your mind go out of the intercourse and concentrate on your sensations and inch yourself towards the orgasmic territory with unwavering mind.

Having sex with a new guy for the first time:   When you are having sex with a new person for the first time, you may not get orgasm irrespective of his way of doing the intercourse. So, do not worry too much when you are having sex with a random hot guy with whom you are not dating regularly and in relationship with him. But this may be tackled by choosing the right sexual position and letting him know how you feel when he engages in foreplay what excites you more and make him do that thing to you. This will improve your chance of reaching orgasm even if you are not in a relationship with the guy you have gone to bed with.

Do not worry and feel stressed during intercourse: Most of the women who have no orgasms at the end of their sex play are the ones who feel anxious in their minds about the delay in climbing up in the path of orgasm and this feeling of stress makes it difficult for them to reach orgasm. So, never give place to worry and anxiety to take over your mind during the sexual union and this alone will help you much in keeping your mind in the right state that is sure to take you to the wonder feeling of orgasm as a winning prize for your sexual intercourse.

So, take these important facts into your consideration and implement these simple tips while getting into your love world and you are sure to find rewarding sexual experiences.