Do you often wonder whether money issues affect your
relationship? Is money so tight that real success evades you? When a friend of
mine recently told me that he and his finance are ticking time bombs in their
dead-end relationship, I wanted to find out why they came to this point.
Just like we do as the boys, I invited him to our local pub
and bought him a keg! Big mistake!!!
After a few pints and beating around the bush a bit, we got
down to what had brought us there. Why all of a sudden after two lovely years
of courtship he would agree to end things with his girl. The thing is,
financial situations had driven them to that point.
My boy here held down a proper position for some company;
unfortunately, the top leadership screwed up big somewhere and the company
started losing money fast! Within a couple of months, my boy moved from right
position to couch potato.
Since he had now stopped taking an income, he turned himself
into a self-pity mess. Slowly, his actions started taking a toll on their
relationship. By letting evil thoughts overrule him, and being quick to defend
himself whenever they had a small issue, led to the deterioration of their
relationship.
Moreover, when they were not fighting and felt all romantic,
he was unable to maintain a hard erection. In short, his actions had a nasty
consequence.
What to Do?
Like a good brother, I had to set him straight, on one hand
tell him things will be alright and on the other tell him to man up and get
things under control. Sometimes a good listener and a reality check are the
ingredients you want to get back on track.
His situation had led him to start using soft erection treatment that was good for the first few times but made him lose his natural
ability to get an erection! Such bollocks! To get back his life on track, he
needed to take care of his issues and take care of them first.
After having a sit down with his partner, the setup days for
visiting a relationship counsellor to help them try to mend their relationship.
I, on the other hand, helped him brush up his CV and pointed him where to begin
his job applications.
He switched from being a couch potato and came up with a
daily workout routine and a healthy eating plan. His regular swimming sessions
and healthy snacking helped him relieve his stress and calm him down.
They are in a good place now, and things are even getting
better. If you know of someone who has suffered the same bout as my friend,
don’t let them loose. Instead involve yourself in their lives and try saving
them, from themselves!
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