Premature ejaculation is when you ejaculate early before you want
to and you cannot control it. It occurs just after penetration and is always
short of the satisfying time required for you or your partner to enjoy the
intercourse. It is a cause of distress and will always lead to trouble in the
relationship and many a times low self-esteem on the man’s part. Most doctors
range premature ejaculation from 0 to 2 minutes after penetration.
Early ejaculation can arise as a result of psychological issues or
biological causes. Problems that affect your mental or emotional health for
example stress and anxiety will lead to the uncontrolled ejaculation. The
initial sex and the anxiety that comes with it will lead to premature
conclusion. Also, when distressed or undergoing emotional stability, you are
likely to aggravate your sexual problem. Initially as a teen one might
condition oneself to ejaculate early to avoid apprehension. In cases where the
men are brought up in an environment where sex is considered to be appropriate
only in specific circumstances they may develop the condition.
Biologically, if the man has had a history of diabetes, high blood
pressure or prostate problems, he is likely to experience the early ejaculation.
There are reports of genetic causes where the problem is likely to be passed
from an immediate relative.
Treatment of premature ejaculation requires the self-initiative
and will be an advantage if the couple can work together to manage it. For self-treatment,
take deep breaths when you feel you are about to ejaculate, this will shut down
ejaculatory process, use thick condoms when having intercourse which will help
reduce the sensitivity. It might also help to let your mind wander periodically
during sex to delay the reflexes.
Masturbate a short duration before sex. The
duration should be long enough so that you can be ready for sex with your
partner afterwards. Different men have different interval times for erection
after ejaculation.
If the relationship is long-term it will benefit you more if you
put a combined effort to deal with the condition. Learn the different
techniques to delay ejaculation together and the woman should help in
implementing. The famous squeeze method is best applicable where the woman
masturbates the man then stops and squeezes the man’s penis just before
ejaculation. Deal with the psychological issues by seeking counselling to
relieve anxiety, distress or frustration which may be the cause of the
premature ejaculation.
There cannot be a straight forward solution to the problem but
will take some effort and a continued practice on the techniques will give the
desired results. They might appear simple but will take practice and effort to
get used to. The cause will determine the best way of countering the condition.
Therefore make sure you take care of the likely causes.
Medicinal treatment is also available but will require a physician’s
recommendation.
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